Fearless Melody

Q: What is a throw blanket?

A throw blanket is a small blanket that is typically used for decoration or for warmth. Throw blankets are usually made from materials like wool, fleece, or cotton, and they come in a variety of colors and patterns. While they are not as large as a standard bed blanket, throw blankets can still be used to keep you warm on a cold day. They can also be used as a decorative element in your home, adding color and texture to any room. In addition, they make great gifts for loved ones!

Q: What is the difference between a throw blanket and a regular blanket?

It is important to understand that not all blankets are throws. A throw blanket is typically used for decorative purposes or for light warmth. They're often smaller than regular blankets and are usually made from thinner materials. Regular blankets are commonly used to sleep or keep warm during cold weather. Technically blankets are more functional and often provide extra warmth than throws.

Q: Can you sleep with a throw blanket?

Throws are a great way to add warmth to your bed. But can you sleep with a throw blanket? The answer is yes! Throw blankets are lightweight and breathable, so they won't overheat you at night. Plus, they're perfect for snuggling under when you're feeling a little chilly. So go ahead and curl up with a blanket tonight. You'll be sure to sleep soundly.

Q: What size is a throw blanket?

A throw blanket is much smaller than a standard bedspread but larger than a traditional afghan or lap blanket. For example, 60''x80'' is a standard blanket size, although they can vary significantly in height and length.

Q: How can you put a throw blanket on a couch?

There are two main ways to drape a throw blanket over a couch: you can either fold it in half or leave it unfolded. If you choose to fold the blanket, ensure the fold is centered so that the ends hang evenly over each side of the couch. You can tuck the ends underneath the couch cushions or let them hang loose. If you prefer an unfolded look, simply drape the throw blanket over one side of the couch and let it fall onto the seat cushions. You can also experiment with patterns and colors to create a unique look.

Q: How do you wash a throw blanket and keep them soft?

Washing a throw blanket is simple, but you must take care to prevent damage. First, check the label for washing instructions. If the blanket is machine-washable, use a gentle cycle with cold water. Add a mild detergent and wash alone or with other items of similar fabric. To dry, use the lowest heat setting on your dryer or air-dry. If the blanket is dry clean only, take it to a professional cleaner. To keep your blanket soft, avoid using fabric softener. Instead, add ½ cup of vinegar to the rinse cycle or use wool dryer balls. You can also fluff your blanket in the dryer on low heat for 10-15 minutes after it is dry.

Q: Can I put my throw blanket in the dryer?

Most throw blankets are made of materials that can be safely put in the dryer, such as cotton, wool, or synthetic fibers. However, there are a few exceptions. For example, blankets made of silk or cashmere should not be put in the dryer, as the heat can damage the material. Additionally, throws heavily embellished with beads or sequins may also be damaged by the dryer's heat. If you're unsure whether your blanket is safe to put in the dryer, it's always best to check the care label.

Q: How long does a throw blanket take to dry?

Most throw blankets are made from materials that dry relatively quickly compared to regular blankets. For instance, a cotton or wool blanket typically takes less than three hours to dry in a dryer. However, thicker blankets can take more time. Drying outside can take even longer, depending on the weather. While the exact drying time will vary depending on the fabric and the size of the blanket, most throw blankets will be dry within a couple of hours. Of course, weather conditions also play a role, so if it's humid outside, it may take a bit longer for your blanket to dry completely.

Q: Can you wash a throw blanket in the washing machine?

You can wash a throw blanket in the washing machine, but you must take some precautions first. Throw blankets are usually made of delicate materials like wool or cashmere, so it's important to use a gentle cycle and mild detergent. You should also avoid fabric softener, as it can damage the fibers. If your blanket is very large, you may need to wash it in two batches to prevent it from getting caught in the agitator. Also, weighted blankets should be hand washed to maintain their quality.

Q: How do you style a throw blanket?

A throw blanket is a solid way to add a pop of color or texture to any room. But how do you style your throw so it looks its best? Here are a few tips: Fold the blanket in half lengthwise, then drape it over the back of a sofa or chair. Let the ends hang down evenly. To add visual interest, try folding the blanket into a triangular shape and draping it over a chair or table. Let the ends hang down. For a more formal look, try folding the blanket into a rectangle and placing it on top of a sofa or bed. Tuck in the sides and let the ends hang down evenly.

After escaping New York in search of a more family-friendly location to raise her son, Melody found herself bouncing between friends and family for a place to live. Working hard to provide for her son, she got her own place and began establishing her life in Charlotte, North Carolina. in July of 2013, Melody began dating a guy and things seemed to be going very well. Though things seemed to be going well, Melody found herself no longer doing her freelance work as an entertainment publicist; not because the desire was gone, but because the man in her life didn’t like the time spent away from him. As Melody continued down the relationship path with this man she found herself feeling less and less supported and encouraged; as much as her life was changing she didn’t see the signs of a controlling boyfriend and continued on.

Melody pulled away from the activities in her life that she loved, and as she did, things continued to get worse, not better. The arguments were more frequent and always extreme. Dismissing the argument style, chalking it up to just who they were, she continued to miss the signs of abuse: this time in the form of verbal assaults. having come from a family where loved ones had been abused on both sides, Melody never dreamed she herself would find herself in an abusive relationship; after all, it was something they had talked about and shared in common. But he controlled her time, and the verbal assaults quickly turned into physical abuse. It was an ankle injury that helped Melody finally see her situation in a different light; she was in an abusive relationship and had to get out. As the assaults increased both verbally and physically, Melody found herself being abused financially as well. Her boyfriend was now refusing to pay his portion of bills as leverage over her.

Melody had had enough and kicked him out of her apartment. but things didn’t get easier at that point. He began recording her, breaking into her apartment, and showing up randomly at where she worked and at her friends’ houses. Though things were still tough, Melody began reaching out to her friends who had known all along she was involved in an abusive relationship. It wasn’t until she verbalized the truth that her real change came and her healing began. growing up in Harlem, Melody knew what it meant to be tough, but it was a journey for her to admit she needed help. The more Melody shared her story, the better she felt. She no longer felt alone. She’d even been sharing about domestic violence on her blog and donating time and funds to a nonprofit that assisted victims, but it wasn’t until that relationship was in her rearview mirror that Melody made the connection to her own story.

Today Melody is using her story to help others find their voice. She doesn’t view herself as a life coach but rather a facilitator of healing. She now desires to help victims find their own personal process. She knows it is different for everyone, and she wants to help others find their path. Melody is not focused on her past as a victim of abuse. She knows she is a work in progress, but more than that, she knows there is so much more to her than her past. She is focused on being the best mother and friend she can be, and though she may not always get it right, she wants to continue to share her story and hear the stories of others as they all continue to heal together.

And now, a few questions from the folks here at thread talk:

Tell us about a setback and how you recovered.

My abuse situation was definitely my setback. I had struggled financially, emotionally, physically during and afterwards but I had recovered by asking for help, getting support, and changing my views. This was “not my fault” which is something you hear a lot but is harder to accept and believe when there are children involved. I worked out a ton, cried a lot. Started writing. Meditated. Crystal therapy. Sun gazed. i would try anything that made me feel good. i didn’t do things I loved to do during the abuse, so i embraced everything afterwards.

What wakes you up in the morning?

My legacy. What I want to leave on this planet, in my community, how I want to be remembered, what I want my son and future children to think about me.

How do you show others you believe in them?

By being supportive and encouraging, listening without judgment/criticism, giving - showing up, sharing a resource, time/holding space for someone.

Who has influenced you the most?

My son. friends back in NY that i have known since I was 13. friends who are amazing moms, I ask myself all the time “how do they do it?” My friends in Charlotte-career wise, personally, professionally. other bloggers. everyone.everything.

What is one thing you still struggle with?

Follow through. I need to write more, I have all these idea. iIve gotten better as everything changes and shifts come. Changing my focus. Getting out of my own way. comparing myself to others. Wondering if I know enough to talk on anything.

What positive affirmation statement or favorite song lyric has gotten you through tough times?

There are two things. my son’s name in Arabic means, “complete unique and perfect.” I constantly remind myself I am those things. And secondly a quote I have lived by for years, and is even in my email signature, “every man has his own destiny: the only imperative is to follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads him.”- Henry Miller

And most definitely, the Rick Ross song, “I'm A Boss!”

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