A pattern of power and control over a dating partner/partner/ex-partner.
Domestic Violence Resources
Thank you for seeking more information about domestic violence. On this page you will find information on what domestic violence is, information on who to contact if you are experiencing domestic violence, domestic violence statistics, and downloadable content.
- Your partner is controlling about what you do, who you talk to, people you see, and where you go.
- Your partner accuses you of cheating.
- Your partner discourages you from having relationships with family and friends.
- Your partner is always blaming you/making you feel guilty.
- Your partner is always trying to be the one in power/have the upper hand.
- Your partner monitors your phone calls, messages, media, and email.
- Your partner calls and texts you excessively.
- Your partner keeps track of your time and location.
- Your partner forces you to have sex against your will.
- Your partner criticizes and humiliates you.
- Your partner hits, slaps, punches, or strangles you.
- Your partner uses your children against you.
- Your partner controls the money/finances.
Police/Ambulance/Fire................................................ 911
Greater Charlotte Hope Line........................................................... 980-771-4673
- Local 24-hour hotline for domestic violence or sexual assault, parenting support, domestic violence shelter
- National Domestic Violence Hotline (TheHotline.org)..................... 800-799-SAFE (7233)
- 24-hour national hotline for domestic violence
- National Teen Dating Violence Hotline (Loveisrespect.org)............ 866-331-9474
- To speak to peer advocates who can give crisis counseling to teenagers/young adults
- Mecklenburg County Community Support Services........................ 704-336-3210
- For adults experiencing domestic violence or child/youth who have witnessed domestic violence
- Local 24-hour Hotline/Domestic Violence Shelter........................... 980-314-8680
- For peole looking to safely exchange their child or have safe visitation for their children
- This recently opened center is a collaboration of agencies that provide multiple services for victims all in one place. For more information, visit Survivor Resource Center | Safe Alliance
- We have compiled a resource list for statistics here.
- We have compiled a resource list for statistics here.
- Visit the NC Council for Women's directory to find domestic violence programs throughout North Carolina

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